The rank also is a reference, but this thing other people can feel, is your thing calculable? 排名也是一個參考，但是這個東西人家會覺得，你的東西是不是可信賴的？
Accordingly, the woman does not want a husband to become the child, and should regard the husband as capable calculable friend. 因此，女人不要把丈夫當孩子，而應把丈夫當作一個有能力的可信賴的朋友。